Where you sit right now is the result of everything that has gone before. There’s absolutely no way for you to divorce yourself from the decisions and the actions you have taken up to this point. In addition, there’s absolutely no way that 10 years from now you will be able to divorce yourself from the decisions made today and the actions taken today. What you do today informs what you experience tomorrow.
While some actions and decisions may seem more important or seem to have a bigger impact on your life, all decisions and all actions ultimately have some effect. Trace back the chain of events leading to you sitting here in this moment. Try to include every decision and every event leading up to the moment. You simply cannot trace your sitting here to any one single event. They all accumulate to produce you sitting here.