Whenever making a judgement, that judgement always involves two sides separated by a boundary or a fulcrum. We may not realize it at the time, but that fulcrum remains variable (even though we may think it's fixed),
Ultimately, awareness is the fulcrum around which "everything" pivots... even "you" and "me"! This means that our fulcrums and pivot points are defined by us- we manufacture the pivot points.
The more we believe in the flexability of a fulcrum, the more we find ourselves judging (ourselves and others). What if WE manufacture the fulcrum?
When we deem something as unchangable or fixed, it becomes a fulcrum.
Yet the deeper we look (with both microscopes and telescopes), the harder it becomes to find a fulcrum.
I cannot consider myself a fulcrum, lest I lapse into solipsism.
What's more, language has to use (or at least imply) a fulcrum. And in reality, there isn't one!